Love is hard, but we keep moving. There's no other option, is there? Onto some odds and ends:
This essay on the fierce triumph of loneliness and relationships really pulled at something deep: "When I looked directly at our relationship, I had to admit that I wanted to come home to this person every day. But I also wanted to come home to myself... Loneliness is not the terror we escape; it is instead the reward we give up when we believe something else to be worth the sacrifice."
You should support your local abortion fund. They've been doing the work for a long time. Here's a list by state. Related: Why the legalization of abortion can be seen as a "public health triumph." It has to do with maternal mortality.